Newsletter #15 • Career

The Promotion Problem

Best performer ≠ Best manager. The career ladder lie.

The LinkedIn Summary

Priya promoted 5 ICs to team leads last year.

Three are thriving. Two are drowning.

Her CEO just asked: "Are we promoting the wrong people?"

The answer? No. The same people who couldn't succeed as managers were exceptional ICs.

The difference between successful and struggling managers isn't talent—it's transition support.

87% of first-time managers receive zero formal training. They're expected to "figure it out."

Cost of one failed promotion? ₹40-50 lakhs.

The fix takes 90 minutes. Full framework inside.

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THE CASE: When Promotion Becomes a Trap

Meet Priya. She's the VP of People at a fast-growing Series B FinTech startup with 220 employees. Last year, she promoted five high-performing individual contributors (ICs) to team lead positions. Her plan was sound: reward the best, build a leadership pipeline, strengthen management depth.

Here's what happened:

Three of those new managers thrived. They're running effective teams, mentoring junior staff, and looking like stars in the making. But two of them? They're drowning. The VP of Engineering caught one of them silently working until 11 PM on a problem they should have delegated. Another is micromanaging their team to a fault, unable to trust others despite preaching empowerment.

Last week, Priya's CEO pulled her into a meeting. "Are we promoting the wrong people?" he asked. Priya knew the answer: no. The same people who couldn't succeed as managers were exceptional individual contributors. Something else had broken.

The Core Insight

The difference between successful and struggling new managers isn't talent—it's transition support. According to research cited in The Coaching Habit by Michael Bungay Stanier, 87% of first-time managers receive zero formal training before taking on direct reports. They're expected to "figure it out."

The Invisible Skill Gap

Your best IC knows how to solve problems fast and efficiently. Your best manager knows how to develop problem-solvers—people who can solve problems without your input. That's a completely different skillset. And nobody teaches it during promotion.

When Priya dug deeper, she discovered the pattern:

  • Manager A (struggling): A phenomenal IC whose strength was solving technical problems faster than anyone. When promoted, they naturally applied the same approach: jump in, solve it faster than the team could, move on. Their team became dependent, demotivated, and unable to grow.
  • Manager B (thriving): Had spent two years as a project lead before becoming a team lead. They'd learned to coordinate across teams, communicate timelines, and advocate for their people. They had an invisible "apprenticeship" that prepared them.

The difference? Exposure to management thinking before assuming a management title.

The Five Dysfunctions (Lencioni) in New Managers:

  1. Absence of Trust – The new manager doesn't trust their team to deliver, so they hover.
  2. Fear of Conflict – They avoid having difficult conversations about performance or development.
  3. Lack of Commitment – Their own uncertainty translates into unclear direction to the team.

The Evidence

70% of team engagement depends on manager effectiveness (Gallup)

69% of managers feel uncomfortable communicating with employees (SHRM)

25% lower attrition at companies with structured manager development

₹40-50L cost per failed promotion

₹8-12 ROI for every ₹1 invested in manager training

85% retention (vs 60%) with structured support

The 90-Minute Diagnostic

Here's the practical framework you can implement this week:

Step 1: Schedule 30-Minute Conversations (30 min total)

Call each new manager from the past 12-18 months. Ask one powerful question:

"What part of your role do you avoid because it feels uncomfortable?"

Listen for patterns:

  • Avoiding 1:1s? Trust and coaching gap
  • Avoiding feedback conversations? Conflict and accountability gap
  • Avoiding delegation? Control and trust gap

Step 2: Create a "Manager-Wins" Channel (30 min)

In Slack (or your internal communication tool), create a private channel called #manager-wins. Invite all managers, both new and experienced.

Post this prompt:

"Share one thing that worked in a 1:1 with your team this week. Could be a question you asked, a decision you made, or a conversation you had. No judgment, just learning."

What happens: Within two weeks, you'll see a split:

  • Experimenters: Managers trying new approaches, failing, learning, iterating. They post regularly.
  • Stuck ones: Managers repeating the same approach, unsure what else to try. They post rarely.

The "stuck ones" become your intervention list—without feeling singled out.

Step 3: Design a Micro-Intervention (30 min)

For each struggling manager, design a 3-month micro-intervention:

  • Month 1: Assign a senior leader mentor (not necessarily their boss). One 30-minute call every other week to discuss real challenges.
  • Month 2: Attend one executive team meeting as an observer. Goal: watch how senior leaders run meetings, make decisions, and navigate conflict.
  • Month 3: Lead a cross-functional project. Forces them to practice influence without authority.

Frame it as: "Accelerated leadership development"—not remedial.

The Three-Week Experiment

For one struggling manager, pair them with a senior leader specifically for coaching practice:

  • Week 1: Senior leader attends one of the new manager's 1:1s (silently). Gives feedback: "I noticed you asked three questions about the problem. What if you asked three questions about the person?"
  • Week 2: New manager runs a team meeting. Senior leader observes, then asks: "What would have happened if you hadn't solved the problem for them?"
  • Week 3: New manager runs another meeting. Senior leader watches for growth in delegation, trust, and curiosity.

Expected outcome: By week 3, visible shifts—more curious, less controlling, more empowering.

The Bigger Picture: Building a Manager Pipeline

The 90-minute diagnostic is a band-aid on a deeper issue: your organization doesn't have a deliberate management training culture. The companies that win have an invisible but critical system:

  1. Early exposure – Identify high-potential ICs within first 18 months. Start conversations about management as a career option.
  2. Pre-promotion training – Before promotion, they attend a 5-week leadership fundamentals course.
  3. Mentor assignment – Every new manager gets an assigned mentor for 6 months.
  4. 30-60-90 plan – Clear expectations for the first quarter.

Sources & References

  • Lencioni, Patrick M. The Five Dysfunctions of a Team: A Leadership Fable. Jossey-Bass, 2002.
  • Stanier, Michael Bungay. The Coaching Habit: Say Less, Ask More. Page Two Books, 2016.
  • Coyle, Daniel. The Culture Code: The Secrets of Highly Successful Groups. Bantam Press, 2018.
  • Gallup Research Institute. State of the Workplace Reports (2020-2023).
  • SHRM. 2023 Workplace Culture Report.
  • LinkedIn Learning. Talent Trends Report. 2023.

Key Takeaways

  • Promotions fail not because you're hiring the wrong people—they fail because organizations expect people to understand management without teaching it.
  • Your best IC is not automatically your best manager. But with structured support, they can become one.
  • The 90-minute diagnostic reveals exactly where support is needed.
  • Peer learning through #manager-wins identifies who's stuck without singling them out.
  • 3-month micro-interventions accelerate the transition.

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